...the opposite...

November!!!! Ya, it's already November.... means the end of the year is coming... I remember what i said (and what i believe) when i was really down in the beginning of this year... the beginning of 2009 was really hard... everything would be fine in the mid 2009... and by the end of 2009, everything would be GREAT!! I keep believing in that, n see... IT COMES TRUE!!! So, i can say... believe in ourselves... when we believe that we can get things done as well as we want it to be, we would twist our minds to think the ways to make it happen... =D

When i went to visit Av last week (he was so sick that time)... He lent me a book and forced me to read it... so, i brought that book home... a really good book, i might buy one for myself... 

there're some things from the book i want to share... here they are:

"It's not because you are making the wrong decisions, it's because you are making the right ones. We try to make sensible decisions based on the facts in front of us. The problem with making sensible decisions is that so is everyone else."

"I wish means: wouldn't it be nice if.... if you always make the right decision, the safe decision, the one most people make, you will be the same as everyone else. Always wishing life was different."

"I want means: if i want enough i will get it. Getting what you want means making the decisions you need to make to get what you want. Not the decisions those around you think you should make. Making the safe decision is dull, predictable and leads nowhere new. The unsafe decision causes you to think and respond in a way you hadn't thought of. and the thought will lead to other thought which will help you achieve what you want. Start taking bad decisions and it will take you to a place where others only dream of being."

"it's better to regret what you have done than what you haven't."

"There is only 1 person who can determine the shape of your life... YOU... who are you going to be??"

"If you want to know how your life is going to turn out, you just have to know where u're heading."

"too many people spend too much time trying to perfect something before they actually do it. Instead of waiting for perfection, run with what you've got, and fix it as you go."

"How you present yourself is how others will value you"

and "whatever you think, think the opposite..."

we live for today... the future depends on what we're doing today...

-Jezz